Circles I have said it before, Reparation's will not happen and here is why. I believe some white folks are willing to admit the horrifying impact of slavery. They have developed their listening and reading muscles to hold that truth because there is plenty of evidence, and it is not…

I was invited to a discussion on how to support the students as they return to school. How to make things less traumatizing for them as they and the teachers navigate learning during the pandemic. I was like, wait a minute, we act like the pandemic is the issue inside…

On line dating produces an interesting array of characters and if that is my thoughts about online dating, why was I there looking? Well, because I am also an interesting character. Duh.. That is a no brainer. Anyways. A gay man and a straight woman met online, had great conversation…

Disappearing Always on the verge of disappearing decomposing in rooms where anti-racism is being explored reassembling fragmented biases into confirmation from a place of fear: fear of saying the wrong thing, fear that you don’t know enough to engage, fear that it might be true what they say about white…

Will we ever stop pretending that everyone in these United States and beyond, is not under the influence of internalized race violence. It is part of our story as a nation from its conception. There is a town in Texas called KILLEEN. It is the site of Ft. Hood, one…

I just got back from an unexpected visit to Texas. I was just there seven months ago and I was not prepared for the onslaught of emotions of trying to convince my friends of the necessity of leveling up then, to address the trauma inside her family. I think it…

Today is a big celebration day in Texas and I miss the community of celebrating Juneteenth in a state that is historically racist, but Texans show up for Juneteenth. I know Biden made it a federal holiday and that is all good and well and err-thang, but you know I…

In my experience facilitating anti-racism workshops, I find it very difficult to address unconscious racist belief in the Pacific Northwest which is ripe with Liberal folk who believe they are “Woke”. Let me just say the Pacific Northwest (PNW) is the most racist place I have every lived and I…

I am so done with being silent around self-hate. I’m done with witnessing friends and family spit thinly veiled stereotypes about Black folks and laugh it up like that shit’s funny. You know the things we think about each other and don't say in the presence , or maybe we…